The kind of background and knowledge each of us has is different, and it is important to respect this. I believe that I have something to bring to the discussion, and I am happy to share my views. Conversely, I value very much the opinions of thoughtful and caring people with different backgrounds, perspectives, views. I also believe that despite the unavoidable impossibility of complete certainty, one should be able to put their opinions out in the open, and sometimes insist on them, in open, fair, respectable fashion. Sharing and learning from each other helps us to learn to live together. This is why I put up this page. And this is why I continue to welcome feedback and discussions..

NATO has plenty of borders with Russia, even more since 2022, which is, apparently, only of a moderate concern for Russian government. But possibility of Ukraine joining NATO has posed a much bigger problem. Is this true or just an excuse? And if it is true, why? I propose that while it is largely an excuse, it is also true that Ukraine joining NATO was indeed a big problem for Russia. But the only reason why it is a bigger problem, is because Russia had other plans for Ukraine.

It is sometimes forgotten, but in 2014 the protests were not just because of withdrawing form EU association. The alternative was no neutrality - but a Eurasian Economic Union, creating much closer ties between Ukraine with Russia. Before 2014, every ukrainan government was balancing between europeran and eurasian integration. But as Russia became stronger, it pushed for making a choice, leveraging ukrainian dependency on russian gas. On the other hand, EU support was also becoming more conditional on reforms to address corruption. The ukrainian government of 2014 was not at all interested in dealing with corruption, and went for the "safer" Russian support instead.

So, what Russia calls "legitimate security concerns" was infact primarily motivated by their desire to expand sphere of influence - through creating new economic ties with Ukraine. Arguably, there is nothing wrong in proposing to create new economic ties. But it is wrong to start a war to achieve this goal.

Clearly, Ukraine moving away from Russia was unfavorable for Russia - so Russian interests were affected. But, crucially, under international consensus Ukraine had a right to do this out of its own sovereign agency.

Ukraine population overwhelmingly stands behind this agency. From my experience, people formely more russian-tied regions (e.g. Kharkiv, Kherson) found themselves in some of the most radical opposition to russian aggression, since they feel especially betrayed by the "big brother".

Clearly, US, NATO, EU, China, African grain importers, and other actors have more or less strong ideas about what they want from Ukraine. They have a right to do that. And they clearly can excersise their influence to promote their goals. Clearly, there is some limit to this. It is commonly considered that external comments in country internal policy is not ideal. This principle is not followed particularly strictly. Reconsidering trade relations, using economic pressure is another tool which is frequently used and is indeed considered valid. Direct military intervention is not considered acceptable except in response to clear and systemic human right violation.

Crucially, even with any reasonable external influence, it should be recognized that Ukraine has a fundamental sovereign right to choose its path. Any individual, collective, or nation, is subject to influences. But it is essential to establish the individual/collective/nation rights, as the basis for relations.

Transition of power in Ukraine in 2014 was clearly problematic. It was triggered most of all by a sequence of mistakes made by the ukrainian president at the time. Arguably, this is one of the "failsafe" mechanisms of representative democracy, allowing to correct for major deviations of the representavies from the path for which they were elected.
After 2014, there were several elections in Ukraine, and nobody, even Russia, challenged the process of these elections.
The entire international community, Russia included, continued to work with post-2014 Ukrainian governments as legitimate ones

My family and I were predinantly russian speaking, and we never experienced any oppression. We have Russian relatives, and I had professional ties. Even despite the 2014 events. There were some changes since 2014, but not substantial. In Donbas, Russia supported the minority separatist rebellion, stirred up on false information about Ukraine outlawing russian language.

In 2014 - 2022, even Kyiv - the "sit of the ukrainian nationalist government" remained mostly russian-speaking.
Anti-russian sentiment became mainstream in Ukraine since 2022 - and nobody did more for this than Russia itself.

Some people who fought for ukrainian nation in WWII decided to side with Nazi Germany against Russia. We do not glorify them for their nazi position, even if it's only purpose was to oppose the Russian domination. We recognize and highlight their struggle for the independence of Ukraine.
It is possible to recognize that a historical figure was right in some of the aspects of their position, and wrong in the other.

There might very well be some people in Ukraine at this time who have views, for example on race, with which I strongly disagree. It's clear, from the repeated election results these people are in an extreme minority. Some of them might be even in the army.
I can disagree with people on some questions, and agree on a very strong common principle - russian invasion of Ukraine must be stopped.

Controversially, the the claims of genocide of russian-speaking minority in Donbas would be true - i.e. if what russia said was true - I could understand a need for external action.
But, as formely predominatly russian-speaking person, with family ties in the east of Ukraine and in Russia, I know these claims to be false.
The invastion of 2022 with its justificiation was just as absurd as it was shocking. In retrospect, Russia just decided to advance its economic goals by military means, we just did not realize how little they care for basic standards of international cooperation and for the thruth.

Some argue that peace should be achieved at any cost, even by surrendering teritories. In fact, I agree that a lasting peace is actual goal.
The problem is that giving in to russian demands will not achieve a lasting peace. Everybody wants peace, but peace right now will mean a lot more violence soon after. Upholding rules-based international order is the best to achieve lasting peace.
Proposing that Russia will not be stop after keeping "just" the annexed teritories is an empirical conjecture.
Consider that after 2014 Crimea was left to Russia in any meaningful sense, and Russia still invaded the rest of the Ukraine in 2022.

The US should take responsibility for their actions in Iraq and similar. Arguably, there was a broad consensus that the invasion is justified. I'd hope the community will learn to deal with these situations in a more structured and organized way, with responsibility attached.

Bad actions in the past do not justify new, even worse, actions. The standard should be maintained and raised, not lowered.

It is true that as Ukraine is getting more support from the US and the rest, this contribution might be considered as a leverage in the future. Potential future excessive dependency concerns me somewhat. But I am also quite confident that if this will occur, the Ukrainian society will be able to resist this just as they resisted the Russian aggression.

To be fair, my taste for current Russian culture has diminished somewhat. Largely because of lingering suspicion that particular aspects of it are used to justify, glorify the war. Similarly, for a particular Russian person I do not know what their position is, and I have hard time accepting that they have no position at all. I will, in any case, treat them with the same respect I treat anyone I meet in any "neutral" space. But, crucially, I know many Russians who's first words to me are when we meet, even 3 years after the full-scale war, express concern for the situation, and some form of shame for the way the Russian state is at the moment. I respect this kind of Russians people very much. In fact, it takes a special kind of courage to express such views against their own state. At least for me, my position is exceedingly obvious. They, on the other hand, have to have a strong alternative vision of Russia which is currently, unfortunately, rather distant.

When I grew up, one of the first music records I heard was owned by my father, the record by a rock band lead by Yuri Schevchuk. One notable song was "Do not shot", reflecting on how the war in Afghanistan changed people who went into it with ideas of some kind of glory and passion. The band remained extremely popular and very prolific, and the after the full-scale war, released a set of records not just condemning the war, but expressing complex and difficult position of the Russian culture driven by its current state. This is the kind of Russian culture which I can respect and appreciate. My father, who was half-russian, who grew up in russian-dominated USSR, who later become very strong supporter of own ukrainian identity, passed away during the war, in some relation to the events of the war.

I appreciate that individuals are not limited to their particular identities and affiliations and should not be subjected to simple bulk judgement. But I also think that their roles, in so far as they have freedom to choose these roles, come with consequences. I welcome and appreciate very much anyone who makes a very difficult step to condemn own nation action seeking to improve it, they do not diminish their group identity but become a drive of positive transformation.

This is a question I, as well as many people I know, are asking themselves. I think the kind of contribution I am making through supporting Ukraine in other ways (which I would not be able to do from the front lines) is still useful, but is it useful enough? Even if formally my obligations are fulfulled, is my position morally justifiable?..

An important point for me is that my center of life for almost two decades has been outside Ukraine. I left as a young student and now have plenty of grey hair, all my adult life was outside Ukraine, I missed many important events of the country evolution, I got married outside, built career and somewhat integrated. If I go to Ukraine, I will not be able to come back for indefinite time to the only place I can now realistically call home. It's different for the people whos life is centered in Ukraine. Not easier, but different.